I would say be honest and state up front that you want to collaborate and communicate, not argue or cause conflict. If you are honest and clearly state your true intentions, then her reactions should be reasonable.
If her reaction is unreasonable, stay calm and loving, and reiterate your intentions. If she is still unreasonable, you will then be confident that it is her issue to recognize and examine.
Well...her reaction was unreasonable. I posted it earlier this morning. I want to stay calm and loving...it's hard when she treats me/talks to me the way she does. I do not want to argue or have conflict...I've done too much of that in the past already! I've maintained honesty and stated clearly my true intentions...and her reaction is still unreasonable and dictating and derogatory. How do I reiterate my intentions while maintaining compassion, value, and respect for her and myself?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
