Actually there was one important message I got from the movie. And that was to do what we're doing for our S and not expect to get anything in return. That we need to listen to them with compassion to what their needs were in the past and show them we listened.
The thing about sacrifice without expectations was a pretty strong one and pointed out alot of the things I was doing that were wrong. We do what we do because we want to do it. I think the shedding of the expectations is the hardest thing. But it can be done with belief in ourselves.
Stuck,
At the risk of getting hit with a club, how does one "listen to them with compassion to what their needs were in the past and show them we listened" as we "sacrifice without expectations" while being Dark?
Or is going Dark done after that?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
