Remember, nothing he does is rational. Everytime I ask my H about something he did or said before sobriety - his response is always the same - nothing I did made sense - a lot can't be remembered - and all behavior was about drinking. Even when he realized he had a problem and wanted to stop - he said the momentum of behavior was hard to control. And if you recall, the first three months he was sober, he still had many of the same behaviors. His changes are very new and getting easier to maintain but still hard work. Takes a lot of committment.
