Talk about mixed blessings. It really does sound like he's messed up. I would recommend that he also go to IC to find out why he's been feeling so crazy.
Write down all benchmarks that he would have to meet to have you trust in him again with the understanding that if he misses one, then he's out the door.
This is going to be much tougher than when you were separated.
Good luck.
{{{stuck}}}
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.