I'm a relative newbie here but I currently have the same minimal physical contact with my wife. One idea that crossed my mind with her (presuming we work on reconciliation at some point) was to consider taking a course together in massage at the local junior college. Might be an easy pretext for you two to touch each other in an "educational" setting and re-familiarize yourselves with each other. Just a thought.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________