I am OK really. I actually had a really great session with my C last week. He liked the e-mail on the whole. Thought it was straightforward and heartfelt but non-agressive and did not beg or plead or make promises.
At this point, unless H has some sort of epiphany, I am getting a D within the next few months. Maybe it will be a legal seperation (because I loose my military benefits a year after D, and since H has no desire to re-marry......), but I don't know about that yet. I do know that I have done all I could do. I am now going dark again as much as possible.
TJ
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