When I read your post, I thought that it was an honest mistake that probably happens a lot in the beginning of these situations. I would say be honest and state up front that you want to collaborate and communicate, not argue or cause conflict. If you are honest and clearly state your true intentions, then her reactions should be reasonable.
If her reaction is unreasonable, stay calm and loving, and reiterate your intentions. If she is still unreasonable, you will then be confident that it is her issue to recognize and examine.
I should note that I haven't read the entire history of your threads, so please forgive me if my advice is off because it doesn't consider an important detail.
Best, Lucky
Hi LuckyGirl.
CityGirl is great...isn't she?
I was such a mean and resentful prick in the past...I only want to be honest and communicate/collaborate...and not argue and have conflict anymore...I've been wanting this since last December! She knows how I feel, and I believe she knows that my true intentions are good...although she would probably try to convince herself otherwise.
She has had a lot of unreasonable reactions...I've pretty much stayed calm and loving to the best of my ability.
I certainly appreciate your input! Thanks. Don't be a stranger.
Best to you also,
antlers
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
