Hi Traveldane,

Well...I am glad you were able to make a list and improve your day! It really is one day at a time.

I really want to send an email to H. I am so fed up of him trying to project his insecurities on me. I want to email H and tell him "Here is a synopsis of the past 7 weeks. Not very helpless or dependent. Leave if you must, but stop judging me just bc I am not a good test taker."

I wrote out a one page email and saved it. I will re-read it in the morning and then decide. I am so sick of hearing about how he is so afraid for me. Really, be afraid for yourself. I'm good, thanks!

Ok...anyways, thanks for the advice. I will see what to do in the morning...but, really traveldane, H needs to hear it. He is so clueless. I am not saying it to get him back.....but to get him to stop talking to me like this. This is bordering on disrepect....as if I am some 12 year old child. If he wants to fix me, we are going to have a serious problem, cuz I don't want to be fixed and I don't want to be with anyone who wants to fix me.

Hope your evening is going well.


Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09