On Saturday, after I got back from the hospital, I was home alone since my W was at her sister's. My friend had let me borrow the "Fireproof" movie and when I watched it last night, needless to say, I cried like a little girl.
Okay I said it. Too bad real life isn't like Hollywood.
Stuck,
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother and hope her the best.
I had watched Fireproof as well. I'm glad you didn't make the same mistake I did. her mom gave us the video and we had never watched. I asked her one day (post bomb) if she wanted to watch it. She said yes (this was about 4 weeks after she dropped the Divorce filing bomb).
After we watched it, she was crying. I thought good. WRONG
She said she thought it was so cruel that I "made" her watch a movie that brought back so much hurt as it hit so close to home. To top it all off, she said that she had to watch it with the person that hurt her that way. I still remember it like it was yesterday. I wanted to go comfort her, but she just snapped don't touch me and stormed to bed.
Craziness. I do agree, too bad life isn't like a movie. I had even told her before that I would give up all the things that we've built up and all the things just for another chance the nite she dropped the bomb on me. Guess she figured she would get all through a divorce anyway......
I'll keep your grandmother in my prayers when I go to church this Sunday
Take care
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
