She acknowledged that I have been busy alot lately and even thanked me for taking the kids last night since she knew I probably had plans. The truth is I didn't. But I let her think I did. When we left dinner I told her I had plans tonite and needed to head out. She told me thats great.
Sounds like she's noticing some subtle changes... so you know what you have to do, right? Answer: Keep doing it - keep busy, and if you're not busy, act 'as if'. Good job looking for some things to do for yourself. Keeps you busy, and you might just have fun!
