Hopeful in VA: Thanks for giving me the support on this, becasue it's not an easy or popular one to hold. If I were seeing ANY warning signs of him going out with anyone (dating, specifically), I would hold other views, but I really don't feel that I have. Yes, he's been going out, and although the issue has been tabled long ago about the Fri/Sat going out with single women friends without me, I know he's not doing something like that right now.
When we first started dating, I was dating him and 2 other guys, he just assumed that we were exclusive after 3 or so dates and wasn't dating anyone. After 2 months, I decided that I wanted to take it to the next level with him because it was going so well, and let him know that I would stop seeing other people, much to his surprise, because he had stopped weeks before. He is a one woman man, and far too emotionally invested in the sex than anyone I've ever been with, which is both a good thing as far as negating my worry, but bad as far as the fact that he is still too upset after an argument for makeup sex, which I really love to use as a way to reconnect and solidify the relationship. Anyways, long winded thank you, but I appreciate your support. Take care.
Me: 36 H: 34 M: 1 yr T: 2 yrs D: filed by H 5/21/09, served 06/08/09, first court date for "maintenance" as well as a plea to restart Marriage Counseling and attend a Marriage workshop 8/24
