K One day at a time sounds hopweful but H probably still needs to work it through so it may still be bumpy and difficult..good new is home remember for your sanity continue GAL, be postive upbeat and hopeful but keep expectations check so dont forget about you..if you give all your energy to him and the M you will not eb able to continue IC would also be helpful
peace
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