I agree with you that I should "go dark". My face is an open book so I have to keep that face and the body along with it in constant motion coming or going to something, your're right on that count.
As far as the assets go, heck yes, I am getting my fair share of em...just because I love him doesn't mean I'm going to allow him to walk all over me. Thanks for bringing that part up though, because it's easy to ignore those cold hard facts when you are feeling so many strong emotions about this major life change.
He is not having an affair. I'm pretty sure of it. He's always been more the "female type" as far as not wanting intimacy if we aren't altogether in a good place. I'm more "the man" in that I have a stronger sex drive and I view it not only as something to do when we are in a good place that feels great, but something we can do to stay connected and together.
Me: 36 H: 34 M: 1 yr T: 2 yrs D: filed by H 5/21/09, served 06/08/09, first court date for "maintenance" as well as a plea to restart Marriage Counseling and attend a Marriage workshop 8/24
