Very,
Hows it going?
Did you move to another thread? I hope you found some answers, we all are here...
I would suggest that doing what works is the best, being that your in the same sitch as me W having P/A I would be a bit careful about pampering if she is still doing something else.
This is a hard time I am in it as well, but people have helped me here and hope you find what you need.
If she is looking for an apartment then this may not be the norm but go with the flow. It may take her by suprise that your willing to let her go, perfer her but willing to help her move if she wants.... All we can do is try...
Right now she will seem to want the opposite of what you do and thats ok, make she she knows your fine with that.... Hard thing to do... The only reason I say this is because I added pressure and that will not work! this is from experience. try to show your the better choice as well as doing this... Hang in there...


Me 40
waw 39
Never formally M
Common law
SD 16
SS 13
Together 9 yrs
bomb 10/2/08
She started dating 11/08
Started P/A 01/09
Contiunes to call R over