Others may chime in differently. I could not let this kind of information go, particularly if I was given reason to believe that a meeting was planned.
Yeah, the snooping is a violation, and she may well rip you hard for that.
On the other hand, I have always felt that the stronger the response, the more likely that something serious was going on. And if that's the case...well, I guess that's up to you.
Keep in mind that this is coming from the man who visited his ex-wife's first lover's apartment every night for a week hoping to catch him there and confront him.
Let's just say I have a strong sense of right and wrong.
Common decency would say that your wife should let you know that this sort of thing is going on, even if it's nothing more than this moron's wishful thinking.
She owes that much to you.
Get it all out on the table. Compose yourself first, and prepare for the worst.
Blessings,
Bill
Last edited by Bworl; 06/09/0912:29 AM.
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