If you have God on your side and you put him first anything can happen. Follow the Divorce Busting Book..it works!!! and if you can get a coach too..I am using Lori..and she is GREAT!!! I did not get to the same point as you but I am making progress myself..just know that it is a very slow process and by following the info in the book and coaching it can be very helpful. It sounds like you are really wanting to save this so do it but do it right..Keep posting in the forums they really do help. Coming from a married man trying to renew his marriage It is very tough but like it says in the first chapter you have to be patient..

Take Care and God Bless

M:35
W:36
M:10 yrs
T:11.5 yrs
C: B7, G3
ED: 3/09
DB: 3/20/09
Served 12-8-09
Still going through the process