The filing helped me which in turn helped my r but that's me.

Your H is doing the same things I did, remember part of being an A is instant gratification so it's hard when we don't get that. Like I was he understands but it takes some thought afterwards. If you can deal with that I promise it will get better but I know it's hard now.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."