Deb...no indications about a trip. Too complicated to get into, but if it happens, it will be here and local..my assumption any way. He will be coming to visit family that she is close with.
That is how, to the best of my knowledge, this accidental online meeting took place to start. Mistaken identity on alt u.
WT...too many questions and thoughts to process before i leave here in a few. My gut tells me to get it all out tonight...unemotionally and firmly, but I don't know if it's possible.
Admitting to snooping seems the only way to open up the the talk, or just asking her to be honest..tell her it's time..that I KNOW something.
Can I stop it...I don't know. How will she feel if she knows what I know? Will she be able to go through with it knowing what I know and eventually everyone else will..our families..our daughter?
It's still too new to process....I was still unsure if the texting was an issue.. a deal breaker...now, I have no idea where I stand.
It's as though I can handle her moving on...closing this out finally..I knew she wanted that.
But to have it end this way..to know she was so deceitful...to think she has lied so often and willingly.
and then to sit her and chat..laugh talk and joke...and to be intimate this morning.
Spinning is not the word.
Isn't like Bill said...letting this go any longer, just putting off the inevitable? Does it matter how I know at this point? Isn't it time for her to come clean and stop lying?
