How do I get thru this?

[needinghope]

We met over lunch. He hasn't looked at me the way he did in a long time. He hugged me and pulled away after several seconds saying, "we can't do this." As if I was expecting any of that. We talked about a plan. I told him that i was not interested in him moving back in as of now because I needed to get comfortable with the idea of living alone. I did say that I needed to know what he was thinking about a course of action. He said that he was interested in an intensive counseling session recommended to us by our pastor. So he's not acting like his decision is final.