I had an interesting interaction with my ex wife on Friday.
I parent based on "Love and Logic" and recommendations from the kids therapist and the CFI that she hired. IE the Consultant parenting model.
She is still following the helicopter and drill sergeant parenting model.
Anyway, when she arrived at my house for the exchange,she made a statement "Maybe if an adult was here" as she was talking to the kids, referring to our differing parenting styles....I just smiled at her and left.
To make a long story short, After she left I had an overwhelming sense of joy and happiness that I don't have her condescending comments in my life anymore. I was in the best mood. I was singing, dancing and enjoying my time alone.
To top it off, I was able to state my view to her. Text message to her: "Please remember the signed agreement. No negative statements about the other parent to the children. Thanks" She then vented to me. But I didn't take it personally. Her issues, not mine.
