I have tried so hard to remain civil with my husband about child support,I think he is taking advantage of the fact that we only have a verbal agreement what he needs to help me with as far as child support..I know for a fact his G/F recently refinanced her home when they came down in May.At least 30k in equity...funny how we can find things out when we really want to. Anyways he has missed 2 months of c/s I have emailed him and texted him for help only 2 times not needy or anything like that Just stated that she needed some money... no answer from him at all, I dont think he ever calls our son either he is totally up her butt, big time I guess anything she says goes....our daughter has a trip and she needs spending money and clothes. He wont give us any until OUR DAUGHTER calls him....I think he should be kissing her behind for the stunt he tried.... trying to push her into our daughters life. I guess he thinks she owes him an apology? I am going to file with the state C/S I know they amount will go down alot since he has no job piddles here and there with mowers and such... but it is better than not getting anything... Sometimes I wish he would file for divorce at least then he wouldn't be my husband and drag our marriage thru the mud. Thanks for listening.I was just having a moment. It just seems God is blessing them right and left,a stress free life,and I am getting slammed with this and that. Any thoughts anyone? All thoughts are welcome... ya'll be blessed