Hopeful:I feel like I am moving onto that place where I can forgive what she is doing and even trust this decision she has made. As I said on some one elses thread here I told my W last night that I am putting my trust in her on this issue.
Throughout our M she has almost always had excellent instinct when it comes to matters of health and heart, and I have many times questioned her judgment only to be proven wrong. So there you have it it's in her hands, and I've reassured her today again that I trust her with this. Her response: "That makes me feel very good."
And yes Mach, changes are for me ultimately because heaven forbid this be the end, I do not , and will not be the man I once was.
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Me 42, Her 34 M 3yrs, T 8yrs D 5 S 3 S 2 ILYBINILWY 02/09 Sleeping in same bed/no intimacy "I,m done" her words: 05/28/09
