That is one of the hardest things in all of this - that he doesn't seem to care much about what I do at all. He is kinda connected to the kids (they are still pretty young) and seems to be working to reconnect more after basically ignoring them for a few months. SOME progress is that he will sometimes ask about my day, or how I slept, or something along that lines but not all the time.

He has never been a huge talker but now is intentionally shutting me out. Painful! When he called to say he wasn't going to be home, I honestly don't remember what I said. I waited for him to tell me where he was going but he didn't, just said "that's it." I didnt' ask. Then I think he went on to ask something about the kids.


"Endurance is a testament of love."

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