Mach1's one day at a time advice is excellent as well...

The furthest I'm looking ahead is a week. What do I have planned to keep me busy for a week? What do I have to look forward to (that is out of the norm for me)? What can I do to improve me?

Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011