I hear what you are saying about not getting inside their head. I really try not to but sometimes she does a complete 180 on me with her attitude and actions and it draws me in. Like I told my IC a couple of weeks ago...it's like she pushes and pushes me away until she suddenly realizes oh crap, I pushed to far and then tries to reel me in a little so I don't totally move on. Then the process repeats.
