What a shock to see you back, but a good shock. I haven't been on the bb to post in at least a year.
I am so very sorry to hear about your son's reaction to the sitch with your uncaring H. I sure wish it was possible for you to work anywhere but near him and the constipated one that he married.
You are so strong and you can give your son the support he needs to get through this. H should not be upsetting you son by letting him know about the interviews until one of them really materializes in something concrete-like a job offer. It is just like torture for your son.
My sitch is moving along. H and I date, spend time together, talk almost every day and he has told me several times that he loves me. Yes, he has really said the words outloud. I was totally in shock the 1st time it happened. He still has a ways to go and there has been no talk of his moving back home yet and I am OK with things the way they are, for now.
I will try to get around to emailing you a full update.
Take care of yourself and your son and let your H do his thing. He sounds like he is still only partly baked even after all of this time.
