Still Living Like Room Mates

[Done in VA]

I think initiating some physical touch in non sexual ways is good. That can help get rid of the awkwardness. Maybe even just touching her arm when you thank her for something she did that day. See how she responds for a bit. Sit closer to her on the couch when you are watching tv. Eventually take her hand. That sort of thing. What about offering to give her a massage? Do NOT try to make it lead to something else. Just get the affection back for now.