Sorry you are in your sitch. You have found a great place for support.
Have you read Divorce Remedy? If not go buy a copy ASAP and read it. The consensus is NOT to share the information in the book with spouse. This is your tool to get the relationship back on track.
I have many books that were helpful to me listed on the first post of my thread.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
