First we didnt know eacr very long when we got married. Only about 2.5 months. I met my wife through work and we started going to lunch.We became close over talking to one another but I was still close to a girl I had been dating. I believed my wife was the one so I broke off the relationship with the other girl.We married soon after eloping to Tennessee to Gatlinburg. My wife had a 6 yr old son and I was smitten with her. A month after we got married my mom was murdered and I became very distraught over it. I ddnt feel my wife was very supportive. She showed little emotion about it and I constantly struggled. I ran into exfriend and she griefed over my mom very emotionally in front me. We talked about it and she said if I ever need to talk she was a good listener. I made the mistake of getting to talk to her about it and not my wife. I ended up sleeping with her twice and realized I already fell into a trap. I immediately broke off with her and exlained that it was wrong. She mailed a ltr my house 4 months later and my wife opened it.That wsas 14 years ago. My wife is very controlling anyway, are bdrm life was always boring even bf any trble happened. I left because I went to counceling to try and get close to her but she wouldnt go. I nvr talked to exfriend since and belief in my heart that this has ruined us. I really would like to know how I can convince my wife that I still love her. I pray daily and want more than anything for my mariage to work. What are these steps everyone talks about and the dos and donts in getting them back. I feel if I change and tell her how much she means to me then it should work. Write me back
