hi givingitmyall. Seems like small communication has gradually come back between me and my wife. I would call it friend communication. However, this is what I lacked for the last few years. When she asks me how my day went. I give her details. I find a couple of good things to talk about that happened to me throughout the day. If you had a lack of communication (about your day to day events, Not R) then you might give that a whirl. Small talk, not necessarily talk about R.