This from citygirl is pure gold, simple and obvious but sometimes still needs pointing out
"You want to walk away. Fine. You want an affair. Fine. But to those actions there are consequences and one major consequence is signing your rights away to all the perks of marrige and partnership with the LBS and be treated as nothing more than a polite stranger."
Cheers Charlie
Me 39 W 39 D8 S5 Married 13yrs Together 20years EA June 06 Ilyninlwy Jan 07 Seperated Jan 07