Don't try to analyze his words or his actions! From everything I've read and seen he's not putting thought into them, so trying to see any deeper meaning in them is a waste of your energy! If you could ask him about something he said yeasterday (AND DON'T DO IT!!!!!!), he probably wouldn't even remember saying it, let alone know any deeper meaning!

Good news, you can see that you feel better when you are more detached! That's some good motivation.

I think that you should be polite to him, but nothing more. I think I would go with, "Hi!", and continue on your way, rather than, "Hi, how was your day?", and wait for his response. If he wants to tell you something, he will. And if that happens, listen a lot, and keep your mouth shut!

I could be wrong, and what I did didn't "work" (though I don't think MLC was a big part of my sitch), but I think detaching and GAL are still very real keys.

Last edited by Virtually_Handsome; 06/08/09 06:20 PM.