Chuckle...did your W say anything about the trip? Have you told her? Isn't Disney free for military right now? Did she invite herself?
These are the type of activities that she will soon realize she is no longer a part...just don't get caught up in the Disney dad/mom scenario that forces your daughter to choose one of you based on whe spends the most...it will not work longterm. One of you has to raise her properly and for now you are the one.
