I'm thinking I am about at Camp I of this climb to the summit of Mt. Everest (reconciliation). Lots of danger ahead and opportunity to fall down cliffs.
I know 5 weeks seems like a long time, but it isn't when you look at 13 yrs of M. I bet there is a lot going on in the ol' thought process even though she has not said much. Like someone said in your thread, your actions are more powerful the words in a book.
Exactly....
Although one of the most dangerous things you can do is access where YOU think you are....
Camp 1 ?
Really ?
Did SHE tell you that ?
Just live everyday for you and your Child....That is really all YOU can do right now.....
If you look down the road in this process, you will fail.
It is one step at a time.....Five weeks is not a long time....But you can't put a timeframe on her healing either...
Would you give up a portion of your life for a chance at a Fifty year anniversary ?
This isn't about you, it is about her...
Be prepared, the more rope you give, the more she will take, best to just drop the rope.
