Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

Update:
Busy weekend. We've contracted to buy a townhome and sell our house. H is a bit stressed b/c there are no guarantees this home thing will all work out. Also stress because he doesn't know if we'll be happy..I think a lot has to do with H getting over being 'dumped' and re-structuring the idea of what the future was/is going to be like...
We're still talking a lot, every once in -awhile I hear an "i love you" but usually in repsonse to me saying it first. Lots of hand holding literally and figuratively...
This piecing stuff isn't a cake-walk-that's for sure...I'm guessing I'm not alone in wishing there was that hollywood movie ending where the spouse comes home and says he wishes he'd never left and I'm the only one...blahblahblah...but thats not the reality, at least not mine. I am happy he's home. Things are better a bit each day..but its very slow and I still don't feel like he's "picked" me. He makes no promises, no pledges, just " I hope this works out".. thats where we are now..