I have to post this for the safety of your children b/c you don't know some very basic stuff about childrearing I guess. I mean you can cheer at their games and that's really nice and all...but seriously...
You "just wanted to try" Leaving an 11 y/o in charge of her 7 y/o sister, alone in an apartment AND on the internet,?? THEN she got mad at you (DUH!!) and you whined that you "can't win with w"...!?!?! And your solution to d11 calling the w, is to take away the cell phone (that she'd use if there was a fire, or an intruder, or an overdose of yours....ALL so your w won't get mad at you....)
Legally speaking, you're lucky your w is letting you have them at all after that. It's called child endangerment Kevin!! It was at best, truly thoughtless. You could be facing charges of neglect or worse.
I'd kill my h for being so stupid as to not prepare for child care when he has the kids. If something fell through, he'd have to stay home OR call me or someone to stay with them until HIS child care planning came into effect. What child care planning? Um, YOURS!! You knew you had the kids that day. Oh, but you were too busy obsessing and wondering if YOUR W was thinking of you, or what missing the Div deadline MIGHT mean b/c she now sees how mature and responsible you are....Basically You were too busy in Kevin's own little show of "Me and My Needs/Wants" and what other tactics you can use to "get her back FAST" instead of planning on how to care for your children while you are at work.
I'm embarrassed for you. And scared for your daughters. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016