The adventure continues--the saga goes on

[AFWAW]

Hoop,
I am going to see my lawyer after I get back from Disney. I have a copy of the wife's LES and will get the scoop on what I can do legally as far as filing. That will give me a better clue as to my next move.
As far as the debts are concerned, well, we have this house together--another question for the lawyer and one joint credit card that has been paid off and cancelled(by me--she doesnt' know yet).
I'm still actively working to find out details about the OM--PCS date, married or not, etc.

So far a good day, hopefully the bad ones will be less and less. I was thinking about wording it the way you said--an inappropriate relationship. We'll see.