AJ- You suggested that her anger may be avoidance and that mine may be and even that yours may be.
So, what might you be avoiding?
Do you think she should come in YOUR house and use the washing machine if she is treating you as less than a friend?
Do you think she should be in your house at all at this point? (she needed her space, you need yours)
I am in a similar position but I wonder if you aren't feeling a bit like a doormat. These are your choices to make. Even if you allow her to come in, you can do it knowing it is your choice and be conscious to put away things you don't want her to see. I think you need your privacy. When H read my emails and saw all of the things I was doing that I had kept so private, it really threw me off.
You have choices. You said you are seeing too much of her, can you do something about that?
