Just wanted to add this in as it really moved me. In closing to a email i sent to the 'new person' in life:

"I know once tomorrow is done and over with, I will be better. And in doing so, I will be better for myself, my boys, and you. she will just have to sleep in the bed she made and spend the rest of her life doing what I did for a long time: wonder 'what if'."

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11