WAW/Affair Exposed - Advice? #3

[DCBHM]

There is definitely a part of me that wants to just finish her off legally speaking.

She has cost me > $10,000 at the moment.
She abandoned S7/S8 without a thought for anyone but herself.
She has shown a complete disregard for D1's well-being.

Bottom line... she threw away a good thing without so much as a second thought for some dumbass who lives with his parents and is an alcoholic. She has caused suffering and misery for people on both sides of our family and created a giant drama bomb which is now leaving fallout in multiple areas of our lives personally and professionally.

Now I'm seeing signs that she just expects to be able to come right back just because real life has become inconvenient.

I'm really not that interested if that is her attitude... she doesn't offer me anything that I couldn't get someplace else. The selfishness and entitlement is sickening.

If she doesn't come seeking honest to goodness forgiveness, there is no future there. I'm not going to be a doormat.