Ready2Change,Did you or your wife file for the divorce? I often times wonder if my WAH is just waiting for me to do it so he doesn't have to deal with the guilt.When you look back at your situation, what is the best advice you can give for the LBS? And the book that helped you the most?I think you are a strong man and a great father.
Wife filed for divorce. She was full speed ahead and never stopped.
I have the books listed at the top of my thread. I have them listed in order.
The best advise I can give LBS is "Do not put your happiness in the hands of another. Be happy no matter how anyone else feels." There is a lot in that statement. Fake it till you make it. Make choices that make you happy. I wake up happy. I fall asleep happy.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712