WAW/Affair Exposed - Advice? #3

[DCBHM]

btw, interesting-yet-useless piece of Flintstones trivia:

The same woman who gave voice to Wilma also did the voice for Pebbles.

Interesting thing... I'm actually working on a computer program which has modules codenamed after Flintstones characters...

I agree with you, but I do think this is EXACTLY what she's going to propose, very soon. Likely on the eve of any deposition which looks like it's not going away.

Puppy

Is it wrong for me to have the "You made your bed, lie in it." mentality right now? The only reason she'd be coming back around is because the fantasy has collapsed and reality looks unappealing. I'm not going to be a revolving door, and I really think I'll never be in a position as strong as I am now.

I'm going to require her to undergo the psych eval and undergo whatever necessary treatment prior to considering reconciling. She also needs to admit to her A, as well as the full extent.

Part of me feels I should be happy if I am in a position where my M can be salvaged - I just also feel like there is no long-term reconciliation possible without her taking responsibility for her actions.

I guess that means I'm in a healthy position to make a better decision on it.