Just got back from MIL's funeral. The service was lovely and mentioned that she was a great MIL to me. That was a nice touch put in by W. I thanked her for that.
At the after service buffet, I had to make my excuses and leave as our 2 boys were being introduced to relatives as 'W's' sons even with me standing there. That was a bit upsetting for me, but I didn't want say anything so just slipped out of the door after saying ' be happy' to W.
I'll pop over to your thread Kass and see if I can help.
