Still, my honest to goodness assessment of this R is that it works if and only if I am truly ok with H doing whatever he wants whenever he wants. I recognize this not to judge him but to honor myself more and know that even if I am "perfect" it may not bring this sitch to the point I would optimally hope for. It is that realization that gives me my breath back, really.
Wow! That's a real eye opener for you! If that's really the case, then you have some decisions to make.
That may really help you to drop the rope.
You are doing a great job really looking inward. Keep it up! (Keep Thinking... )
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Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
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