Maria, I have no advice for you today (you have enough of it floating around that you can pick and choose anyway!), but I just wanted to stop in and say hello and tell you I'm thinking of you and hoping and praying for the best for you!
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
Sorry the get-away looks like it is scrapped, but I hope you and H can have some decent time together (even for an hour or so) this weekend anyway.
I know Jeff brought it up again and I'm curious as well as to whether there has been any more talk about H dropping one of the jobs - I think it was the night job????
You had mentioned that one of his bosses had offered to help him find supplimental work he can do w/out having to have two jobs. Keeping my fingers crossed that this still comes through, however, I'm not holding my breath b/c I'd die from lack of oxygen. I don't see it coming through that quickly.
It's a beautiful day in Connecticut (the state I live in). I'm refinishing the window sills through out the house where the dog clawed them over time in her vigilance to monitor what was outside.
Evening K.. is your son better?? Sorry that he is ill and you couldnt get away.
I was thinking of you at the weekend and my Mum and Dad and bf all asked after you !! Isnt that sweet?? I told him you sent me a book..and then showed him something from it and he liked it alot!!!
Hope you are ok? xxxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Hi guys, my son got better overnight, had high fever Friday, was feeling much better Sat morning and was out playing Sat afternoon. Which btw, given the nightmare I lived with him and my D sick for 2 years Non-stop, is a GREAT 180 for me (to allow him to "resume operations" so soon. When they were younger, with any kind of virus we would end up in the hospital. All vacation times were interrupted by their sicknesses, parties missed, weekends (they always got sick on a Friday night), bithdays, celebrations... Looking back, that was a nightmare. No surprise we collapsed.
Anyway, H came over Friday night, left Sunday with less words than 50 between us, less than 20 irrelevant to the kids. Today he called once, asked about the kids and that was it.
I took the kids out yesterday and this afternoon, cooked nice meals, took care of my summer clothes and found some I had forgotten about ( )mostly dresses and tops.I say found cause I am still not used to the idea of taking up all the space in all closets so I didnt check the ones "assigned" to H until today.
Other than that, the weather has been hot and my kids are super sweet and cute.
but I just wanted to stop in and say hello and tell you I'm thinking of you and hoping and praying for the best for you!
