Just to let you all know, so far I have made no active steps to help my W with her book, just given her room.
In response, she has started staying up late and working on it.
(at least that is what she says she is doing - staying up late working on her computer in her office, but since it is her time I don't really care whether she is or whether she is just wasting time on facebook - it's her time and her project.)
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.