another newcomer - thread #2

[JKL2009]

Wish I could report more on my weekend, but it was sort of a blur of nothing eventful. Spent some good time together, some time alone. Felt some good vibes of playfulness with WAW, but also at dinner Sat night she talked openly of not wanting to live the rest of her life like it has been the past few years. Of course, what I said was that I don't either, I want to divorce that old relationship and have a new, healthier, more connected one.

This morning I "slipped" a little. We sleep in the same bed these days, with no interaction. We woke up and were sort of laying there, and I rolled over and put my arm around here and said "mind if I do this?" She shoke her head "no problem" and we layed there for a little bit. Probably against the DB playbook at this point, but it seemed right.

Later, when she was getting dressed (and she was looking really good today) I came up behind her and gave her a hug and said I just got to do this. She smiled. We had a pleasant little exchange and what the heck, it was a good start to the day.

The best thing I have observed this past weekend and the past couple of weeks is that, when we talk about things and the M and such, she tends to prompt me to continue, to elaborate, to talk more. I see that as that she is listening, and she is wanting to hear things from me. A positive sign...