I know in DBing no R talk is a biggie, but if you are reconciling, have you spoken to her about this? What does she say? Have you tried to start off holding her hand or just showing some basic affection? How does she respond?
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!
