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But I want to be self-sufficient so that if he pulls the rug out from under me again, I wont be in such a bad place as I was last year.


I think that's an excellent idea. You've worked hard to get yourself back into a good place. Protect that investment.


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I would like for us to start planning a trip to see each other. I just think that being face to face for at least a little while would be good for us.


I think that's an excellent idea. How long has it been since you were together in person?