Know that I'm reading along and catching up when I can... I'm with you, just not always actively posting. If you ever want my input, just yell. Otherwise, I promise to chime in when I think I might be of help.
I'm with Startingover... I'm also confused as to why she would lie. Some possibilities that I can think of:
1. She doesn't really want to go through with it, so she's keeping the letter on the "backburner" and is waiting to see what happens before keeping that court date. 2. She didn't want to ruin the nice time you were having together. 3. She has such a difficult time telling you about what's inside her head, that she is covertly planning a swift divorce, not allowing much time for discussion or debate with you. (I don't like this one, and I'm hoping that this isn't it.)
But, there we go guessing what's in someone else's head again. The only way you're going to achieve intimacy is to be intimate, open up, and discuss the 500 lb gorilla in the room. And pepper her with more of those daring kisses!
